What does abortion mean to you?
Ending a pregnancy.
Are you pro-choice? Pro-life?
I am pro-choice.
If so, why? What has influenced your decision?
Growing up and being exposed to both sides of the issue. I used to be pro-life but as I grew up and started reading up on things like pregnancy, abortion, and even adoption I started realizing that I didn't like children very much and where I'm headed in my school and career, I won't have time for pregnancy. A lot of people might say that's selfish of me but I do not want a baby when I'm still younger and not established in a career. If I want a child I want to be able to take care of it adequately and as I realized this, I knew if got pregnant I would have an abortion too. In general I identify more with the pro-choice side of the issue; and I've heard various stories about how bad pregnancy and adoption can be, which has just made me even more pro-choice.
I don't want preposterous old men making laws as to how I can or cannot control what the hell happens in my uterus.
Are there any circumstances in which you believe abortion is wrong or should not be allowed?
Yes. I don't think late term abortions should be allowed except in cases of medical necessity, either on the mother's part or the fetus'/baby's part.
What is your opinion on late term abortion?
See the previous question ~
Do you believe abortion is too common? If so, why and what do you think should be done to lower the number of abortions performed?
I don't believe it's too common but sometimes I think it's too...out in the open, I guess. Honestly, abortion should be between a woman and her doctor.
Should the father have a say in the procedure?
If the couple is actually together and the father isn't going to run out on you, yes. I don't think it's fair that the father have a say if he's not going to stick around and help take care of it.
Should minors be allowed abortions without parental notification or consent?
Yes. It's better that they be allowed to get an abortion than be forced to carry to term a fetus/baby that will be neither wanted nor loved. That's just straight up cruel as far as I'm concerned.
What do you think of adoption as an alternative?
The adoption system in the US is broken. So few kids actually end up getting adopted into a good family and I can't comprehend how an unadopted child feels when it knows it isn't wanted by anyone. That upsets me. And from stories I've heard the suicide rate of adopted (or as-yet-unadopted) children is ridiculously high.
The use of birth control to prevent pregnancy in the first place?
YES. Christ on a cracker, it cannot be said enough times that parents and schools fail
across the board in educating their children on sex, its consequences, and "if you want to do it, here's how to not get pregnant and not get a disease." I hate that sex is still such a taboo topic in the US.
US parents and schools should face it already - people will do the deed anyway and abstinence should be taught in conjunction with the other options kids/teens have. Most of my own sex ed class in school was DON'T HAVE SEX OR YOU'LL GET DISEASES AND DIE. I would have been happier if I'd been taught about all my options - I had to learn about the Pill and other birth control from my mother/elsewhere.
I feel that it's better than kids/teens learn this stuff from parents and other reputable adults. If they don't learn it there, that's where the internet comes in and we all know how reliable the internet can be. e_e
Is enough being done to reduce the number of abortions performed?
No. We (the US in general) need to start making the options of birth control more widely available and easy to get and people need to realize that sex doesn't need to be such a taboo topic. People do it all the time.
MightyOak wrote:That the debate still exists in the States is somewhat disturbing and definitely perplexing.
Such truth you speak. I don't understand why this debate is still going on, either. I may be pro-choice but I still believe that an abortion belongs between a woman and her doctor and where applicable, the father, but it should still be a private matter.